Crazy!

'Crazy' .. !! A word used quite often these days. No harm in using it as such. Something has happened in last few days, which made me think over its actual meaning. 

In case of some physical ailment, whatever its intensity may be, it can be atleast easily understood if not cured (at times). But when it comes to mental ailments, its so difficult to even assess what the problem is. In such cases, understanding the root cause is such a tedious and also a really important task. I am quite saddened to see, how even kids are caught under "Depression" these days! How? What circumstances lead them to that state? Studies?? Pressure from Parents to excel? I don't know.. I really don't know how this little thing in head called 'brain' drives our thought process, how  do we get depressed, how we get exhilarated.. ? I just simply know people with any kind of mental ailment need utmost support. They need to know that they are really important. Then why do they are secluded in the mental hospitals, alone? far from their loved ones? I know they are harmful.. for society, for themselves even. But don't they require the 'needed' support the most at that time? 

People who are not physically well are taken to the doctors. Similarly, people who are mentally unwell are taken to their 'special' doctors. Thats it. Simple. Giving such patients special attention is required. But specially secluding them is not the right way. 

I just wish well for everyone around. Thinking too much over anything can never be a solution. Nothing is as important as life. It is such a special gift from Almighty... We have one life to live, the present moment to live... 

God bless! Keep Smiling.. Ciao .. 

Long awaited.. :)

Hi :)

The beginning of this weekend is so beautiful... Sunny morning, Makar Sankranti (Maghi in Punjab)..  a lovely friend's birthday, smiling faces around (apart from Deepika's, some people work on Saturday mornings too, uff!!)

It feels so good when we are living that moment which we waited for long. When you made all the preparations for something, when you planned for something, and the day when it materializes, an amazing feeling! Yes, I am going through that 'amazing' feeling. I am really elated and I am smiling. And when you are smiling, you actually tend to see everyone else smiling too :) :)

I don't really have much to write.. Just hoping the best for everyone around. Special wishes for the 'birthday' friend! God bless.. !!

Ciao.. :) n yes.. keep smiling! :)

A fiction..

She was in early 20s. Very beautiful, a face of one in a million. She was fair, tall, carried herself really well. Belonged to rich family, had all the privileges. Never studied in a co-ed environment. She did not had a great intellect, but was smart. When she got a chance to go out and see the world, she flew away. Guys were attracted to her. Everyone wanted to be with her. Girls were jealous to see her beauty. She did not talk to many people. She was proud of what she was. People started hating her due to her reckless attitude. She was not beautiful by heart. May be, she was too much into herself, she couldn't understand that others are important too. She got along with a few friends, girls, obviously little less than her in everything. It was a fruit to her ego that guys stared at her, and not at her friends. She liked demeaning them. May be, she wanted to be above them in everything! But friends were always there with her. She was with them, just for the sake of a company.

Many people loved her, she ignored. Still a guy loved her truly, from the core of his heart. He was not great looking, but knew love is everything he can bestow on her. And yes, he was successful to steal her heart away. She fell deep in love. She was all he needed. Movies, shopping, night outs, long drives, hugs, kisses... a beautiful life, he ever imagined. She loved the way he loved her. Things were amazing.

18 months passed by.. merrily. Unexpectedly, he saw her with some guy at the movies late in the night. She said the other guy is a friend. He trusted her blindly. Things moved on fine. They were still a happy couple. After a month, he saw the other guy on Facebook, as a friendly gesture, he sent a friend request. The other guy added. He went to his profile, saw the pictures. That guy was engaged, engaged to a girl 10 months back. To all his surprise, he was engaged to someone who looked just like 'her', the love of his life.

He met her in the evening, they went out for dinner. After spending a lovely time, he said, "I met a friend of yours on Facebook."
She: "Who?" She asked with wide eyes.
He: "With whom you were out at the movies that day.. "
She: "Oh! Then??"
He: "Then nothing.. you know what, he is engaged?"
She: ... .. .. <speechless, horrified, worried>
He: I was amazed to see... that girl, with whom he is engaged..  she looked just like you. And I am really sad, you did not tell me you have a twin sister? :(
She: .. .. .. <teary eyes, shivering hands>
He: Its okay if you did not tell me, wish her good luck from my side.
She, spoke with teary eyes: I got engaged, almost a year back.
He: Stop kidding!!
She: I am sorry, I lied all this time.
He: .. .. .. <quiet>
She: .. .. .. <crying>
He: Stop crying, we still are friends. I wish the best for you.
He dropped her home. His trust was broken. He still was there for her.

Time has moved on, she is getting married. He is still a good friend.

Why do boys have such big heart?? Why he couldn't hate her?? Why he trusted her so blindly?? Why she did all this to him??
Unanswered questions.. !! 

New :)

Helloz..

The holiday season is on! Hope my readers have got smiles on their face while reading this post. If unfortunately, you don't have.. please bring it for my sake, coz I have mentioned it :) :) Great! Thank you! :) Spread smiles ahead with your smile! I read somewhere.. 'You should keep smiling, no one knows when someone is falling in love with your smile'. Rest is your decision. ;)

With this year ending, I am kind of planning to think afresh, start afresh and welcoming the new year with novelty. Many people would be thinking to do the same. A great step I must stay. We ought to leave the haunting past and our mistakes behind to move ahead. I might have done thousands of blunders till now, I am glad to say, I was forgiven always. Thankfully! But why people like me are still thinking over them?? It is high time, to see the beautiful present and relish it, and to await the future. We generally crib about the things we do not have with us, rather than being happy for what we have with us. It is said 'Count your blessings'. Try and spend few minutes on counting your blessings. I am sure, you will forget about the 'missing' things.

We are on this earth with some responsibilties. In running here and there for fulfilling them, we forget to live life our own ways. Slowly and slowly, we even forget what our 'way of living' is. We substitute the life with work and responsibilties. Let us try to do stupid things off and on. A simple way to smile. :)

I was just wondering why do we wait for "new year" for taking these pledges. As each moment is New, we can do that in every 'new moment'. I wish we all do something which makes us and others smile daily. May we all be blessed with all the happiness!

God bless..! Take Care! Keep Smiling! Welcome the new year with new hopes! :) :) Ciao..

Relationship!! Saturation..!

Hello J

I am just loving this chilling weather!! It feels so thrilling when you cannot see anything beyond few meters. All you can see and sense is fog, some icy crystals around you. Something cold touching you and filling in your breath. Just wow!! J .. but not so good part is.. people like me have to go to office in this beautiful weather early in the mornings, while others are cuddling in their warm quilts. Let me try to find out something positive here too… yes, I get to feel the lovely cold, when others cant. J I believe I wrote something more and serious about winters in one of my previous posts too. Yes, winters are close to my heart. I simply love them and I can write on them a lot! But would not do it right now. You can have a sigh of relief. It is not as boring as it seems  to you now. ;)

I read somewhere once you start with writing a blog, you are very active and you write pretty often and later on your pace slows down. I am finding it true may be. Yeah.. the craze of writing and wanting to express is high when you start. As soon as the time moves on, the passion reduces, may be ability to spend the same time in writing is no more possible. Isn’t it the same with everything?? Whenever we start with something new.. we are too excited for that, when time passes on, we tend to get slow. May be our interest reduces. Normal human tendency! May it be.. studying something new, a new job, a new TV series, a new friend, or may be a new relationship or may it be anything!

I would love to write on relationships.. one of my favorite topics to talk on! When it is new, you have lots to talk about. You can speak for hours, you can listen for hours, or maybe you can just be quiet for hours and you love even that. Everything is so quick in the beginning, and then, it just slows down. Things don’t move. You might feel saturated. You feel this is it! Heights! And you even do not realize when it became actually ‘it’! I have seen people getting bored..  and I am glad to say I have seen people actually made for each other. I must say, I truly admire them. I wish them all the good wishes. But for those who get ‘bored’, trust me guys, it is not always true that the other person is boring!! You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize where you went wrong. It takes two hands to clap. Isn’t it? Think and react. You alone can’t make a relationship work, and you alone are not responsible for making it so called ‘boring’. If two people walk together on the same road with different pace, they are not going along together. For going with each other, your pace has to be same. 

Good Luck!! J

Keep Smiling! J Ciao!

No... Please No!!

I so want to speak out! The most hated thing in the world is.. being misunderstood!! And when this happens with the your loved ones, it is so intolerable. I am writing this in the midst of my emotions, in the midst of my 'debates' with someone really close to me. 


This life is so short to love, how do we find time to fight? or hate? I don't know, but all of us do. We tend to have arguments only with those, who really are important in our life. Yes, I just said, we have arguments with people important to us. It simply happens coz.. we want those 'important people' never to take us wrong. We want them to know that they are important and they are in our mind all the times. We never forget to expect from them, but then we may forget to see their expectations, leading to all the negativity! I wish I could just be blessed with those eyes to identify the things expected out of me.. whether it is 'a bit' or 'a lot'. I really am myself all the times. My priorities do not change over night. I wish .. I can just wish to be understood the right way. I am not a pushover, I use my brains, cant help!! 


I just can't afford to lose, may be, I am not worth losing too, depends actually!!


I did not want to spread negativity. I just want,those of you, who have taken out your precious time to read this, to understand.. you just cant let everyone go. Expectations are bad, but we expect from those who deserve that. And when you are expecting, do not forget to understand that there are some expectations from you too. You cant always see your side of the coin only, opening you eyes and mind for the other side is equally important. So, never let everything go! Some things deserve to be held for long...... 

Wo Lamhe..

Hello Everyone! Happy December J

I was just thinking .. how my each and every moment reminds of some things and some people. Our little head carries plethora of memories.. may be good, bad or neutral. But all these huge memories become a part of you. Some of them.. we want to re-happen, some we just recall, some we can’t forget.. and some we do not want to forget ever. A complete mix.. I have many such memories with my family, with my friends and with some really important people in my life.

I just want to share a weird memory.. I don’t  know why it comes in my mind suddenly. It is not something great but then still I am trying and writing it down. I remember, when I was in class 6 or may be 7, I used to hate Hindi as a subject. And to add to it, we had a really strict teacher. Trust me; I have her face right in front of my eyes while writing. Me along with my classmates used to be petrified to attend her classes. One thing more, there was a rule of rotation in my class.. as in, you need to keep on rotating your seats. If you are sitting on the first bench today, you need to sit on the second bench tomorrow and so on. Then came a day, when I was sitting on the first bench confronting HER. I had got a ‘stylo’ hair cut just a day before, which had hair falling on my forehead. Then, she started staring and staring and staring and staring some more. When, this timid Nancy tried to look in her eyes. She suddenly spoke.. “Can’t you pin your hair??” That is all in my mind.. it still comes in front of my eyes as it is happening live. I do not know the reasons, really! Please readers, do some analysis and tell me why I recall it, when it is not at all important to me now?? There are some incidents which just reside in your heart and mind.

There are some really beautiful moments with me.. one of them which I never expressed is shared in next few lines. Around 8-9 years ago, it was my brother’s birthday celebration at my home. My whole big family was together. Me and my family were spending great time. I started crying suddenly. They were tears of joy. And they were presumed as a kid crying coz it’s not her birthday. I could not explain how happy I was. I couldn’t explain the actual reason for those tears. Yes, this memory is still in my eyes.

There are ‘n’ number of memories which I really want to put down here.. Really, really close to my heart.. May be I would not justify them properly with words. Will end here.

Take Care!! Happy Weekend! J Keep Smiling J Ciao J

P.S.- If you do not find me sensible in writing these days, please ignore!