Recently, I read someone’s FB status.. “I don’t like self-centred people, they only think about themselves.”
It set me thinking how much do I think about myself? The answer was .. almost every time. I am breathing for me. I am eating for me.. I am being social for me. Even I talk to friends, hang out with them, as simple as being on facebook, posting this blog, all this… for me!! I am working, earning money for me. I am self centered like anything. Isn’t it? And, so we all are. A simple enlightenment.. even if I knew this fact already.
How can someone hate the other person for being self-centered then?
Just got reminded of another quote which I read:
"We all are self-centered, its just the radius differs."
If a person considers himself to be in the centre of the world, the centre of attraction, that’s kind of a ‘bad thing’. The bigger the radius, more self-centered you are. In the other way, if a person is in the centre of their world, yeah.. his ‘own’ world, the radius is small. Then, it would be a very different matter. This is a healthy self-centeredness, a kind of Mature Self-Centeredness, which is really a necessity.
Obviously, if I have an option to get a salary hike or to get it done for some XYZ.. It would be me, am hell sure of it! Yeah, I am being self-centered. But, a mature one… na..? Phew.. I am relieved.. I am not that bad! ;) :)
Ciao.. Keep Smiling.. :)
2 comments:
it was a very nice blog by u nancy. it really depicts, who nancy is all about. i am very happy that i could be associated with you. seriously u r very nice and wherever u go, the path of happiness and joy follows u and everyone who are among your circumference they are also being able to grasp something from you.
Thanks a ton unknown!! :)
Post a Comment