Love is in the air ♥

Helloz.. 

Now, after around 6 months of my post graduation.. I am seeing many engaged couples around, who were once 'In a relationship' in college. People actually, moving seriously towards accepting each other forever and ever and ever. It’s a beautiful thing actually to accept someone so completely. Yes, once you change your relationship status from 'In a relationship' to 'Engaged' or may be to 'Married”, you just cannot go back. I am surrounded by people madly in love.. who really want to be with each other for the rest of their lives. I somewhere find it a herculean task actually. I don’t think someone would be able to tolerate me forever!! I am a difficult person.. and so.. many of us are. But, I am sure, when we decide to be with someone, we accept everything! Everything here means, positives, negatives, neutrals.. everything! At times, a word called adjustment comes into play. I personally feel.. this adjustment should be replaced with unconditional acceptance. Life would seem simpler and sweeter. :)

As per Hindi movies, you can’t forget your so-called first ‘love’. I said 'so-called', coz at times, you yourself do not know that is it really love? or just a liking.. or many be infatuation. It is also said, Love never changes.. I am not actually very much in favour of these statements. I have people around, who were not very successful in their first relationships.. and have moved on and are living a great life. And for some, the first relationships were so painful, that they have literally started hating the other person. This is how, Love converts into Hate. How can this happen? I find it so weird. But then, yes, it does happen.

What do we all want in the end? A hand to hold for the rest of the life, a shoulder to lean on whenever you feel like, someone to share the actual ‘us’, somebody who can understand each and every bit of us… someone.. who can claim the complete right on you.. who can make you feel complete! It is as simple as that, a few emotional needs. It is also, as complicated as it can be!!

Just ‘being what you are’ makes things easier. There is nothing better than ‘being loved for what you are’!! Why do people try and pretend to be someone else? Why don’t people actually say what they are? Why do people do not speak their heart out?? Trust me; doing all this is a necessity for everything to be true!!

And yes, I am coming across a few compliments.. with people waiting for me to write again. I am truly thankful to you all for appreciating me. Thank you so much for reading.. :)

Ciao.. Take Care! Keep Smiling! Be yourself!! :)