Opinion? or Backbiting??

I was wondering why people like talking about others a lot? Is it that their life is not at all interesting, and hence they need some X, Y or Z to talk about? I am using pretty nice words (talking about others) here for backbiting and bitching actually. A few of my readers who indulge in this may not like, or even may hate my post.. but still this is what I actually think.

I got to know a few people commenting on what kind of a person Nancy is. I can estimate out of those, 99.9% comments on me would be the distorted truth. Yes, I am calling the mirchi wali gossip as ‘distorted truth’. The rest 0.1% would be those, who actually know me. I still don’t know, why am I given that much importance over others.. as in.. why am I the privileged one?? The topic of discussion?? Is your own life so boring, that you can’t even talk about it?? Whatever.. it is a democratic country.. n yes, we are ‘free’ to express our opinions. But try and kind of avoid speaking shit about others without full information. Yes, yes!  You have got full rights to can hate me for this post, but this is what I actually felt!!

As, the idiom says, ‘All that glitters is not gold’. So, it will not be good for me to blame anyone. It’s just that I wish people could think and then speak. Presumptions are not always true. At times, whatever we see with our eyes is not always true. But we humans are kind of structured in this manner. We tend to trust our eyes, more than our instinct. I would surely prefer following my instinct. I believe, good instinct usually tells you what to do long before your head has figured it out!! But we wait for our head to speak something, and in that waiting, we are too late! I am also not very sure.. whether which one of these will be giving the positive results.. but still I don’t want to be late atleast... I am actually falling in love with this full of surprises life.. :)

Ciao.. Take Care.. Keep Smiling!!