Relationship!! Saturation..!

Hello J

I am just loving this chilling weather!! It feels so thrilling when you cannot see anything beyond few meters. All you can see and sense is fog, some icy crystals around you. Something cold touching you and filling in your breath. Just wow!! J .. but not so good part is.. people like me have to go to office in this beautiful weather early in the mornings, while others are cuddling in their warm quilts. Let me try to find out something positive here too… yes, I get to feel the lovely cold, when others cant. J I believe I wrote something more and serious about winters in one of my previous posts too. Yes, winters are close to my heart. I simply love them and I can write on them a lot! But would not do it right now. You can have a sigh of relief. It is not as boring as it seems  to you now. ;)

I read somewhere once you start with writing a blog, you are very active and you write pretty often and later on your pace slows down. I am finding it true may be. Yeah.. the craze of writing and wanting to express is high when you start. As soon as the time moves on, the passion reduces, may be ability to spend the same time in writing is no more possible. Isn’t it the same with everything?? Whenever we start with something new.. we are too excited for that, when time passes on, we tend to get slow. May be our interest reduces. Normal human tendency! May it be.. studying something new, a new job, a new TV series, a new friend, or may be a new relationship or may it be anything!

I would love to write on relationships.. one of my favorite topics to talk on! When it is new, you have lots to talk about. You can speak for hours, you can listen for hours, or maybe you can just be quiet for hours and you love even that. Everything is so quick in the beginning, and then, it just slows down. Things don’t move. You might feel saturated. You feel this is it! Heights! And you even do not realize when it became actually ‘it’! I have seen people getting bored..  and I am glad to say I have seen people actually made for each other. I must say, I truly admire them. I wish them all the good wishes. But for those who get ‘bored’, trust me guys, it is not always true that the other person is boring!! You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize where you went wrong. It takes two hands to clap. Isn’t it? Think and react. You alone can’t make a relationship work, and you alone are not responsible for making it so called ‘boring’. If two people walk together on the same road with different pace, they are not going along together. For going with each other, your pace has to be same. 

Good Luck!! J

Keep Smiling! J Ciao!