Sunday, January 29, 2012

Crazy!

'Crazy' .. !! A word used quite often these days. No harm in using it as such. Something has happened in last few days, which made me think over its actual meaning. 

In case of some physical ailment, whatever its intensity may be, it can be atleast easily understood if not cured (at times). But when it comes to mental ailments, its so difficult to even assess what the problem is. In such cases, understanding the root cause is such a tedious and also a really important task. I am quite saddened to see, how even kids are caught under "Depression" these days! How? What circumstances lead them to that state? Studies?? Pressure from Parents to excel? I don't know.. I really don't know how this little thing in head called 'brain' drives our thought process, how  do we get depressed, how we get exhilarated.. ? I just simply know people with any kind of mental ailment need utmost support. They need to know that they are really important. Then why do they are secluded in the mental hospitals, alone? far from their loved ones? I know they are harmful.. for society, for themselves even. But don't they require the 'needed' support the most at that time? 

People who are not physically well are taken to the doctors. Similarly, people who are mentally unwell are taken to their 'special' doctors. Thats it. Simple. Giving such patients special attention is required. But specially secluding them is not the right way. 

I just wish well for everyone around. Thinking too much over anything can never be a solution. Nothing is as important as life. It is such a special gift from Almighty... We have one life to live, the present moment to live... 

God bless! Keep Smiling.. Ciao .. 

Friday, January 13, 2012

Long awaited.. :)

Hi :)

The beginning of this weekend is so beautiful... Sunny morning, Makar Sankranti (Maghi in Punjab)..  a lovely friend's birthday, smiling faces around (apart from Deepika's, some people work on Saturday mornings too, uff!!)

It feels so good when we are living that moment which we waited for long. When you made all the preparations for something, when you planned for something, and the day when it materializes, an amazing feeling! Yes, I am going through that 'amazing' feeling. I am really elated and I am smiling. And when you are smiling, you actually tend to see everyone else smiling too :) :)

I don't really have much to write.. Just hoping the best for everyone around. Special wishes for the 'birthday' friend! God bless.. !!

Ciao.. :) n yes.. keep smiling! :)

Monday, January 9, 2012

A fiction..

She was in early 20s. Very beautiful, a face of one in a million. She was fair, tall, carried herself really well. Belonged to rich family, had all the privileges. Never studied in a co-ed environment. She did not had a great intellect, but was smart. When she got a chance to go out and see the world, she flew away. Guys were attracted to her. Everyone wanted to be with her. Girls were jealous to see her beauty. She did not talk to many people. She was proud of what she was. People started hating her due to her reckless attitude. She was not beautiful by heart. May be, she was too much into herself, she couldn't understand that others are important too. She got along with a few friends, girls, obviously little less than her in everything. It was a fruit to her ego that guys stared at her, and not at her friends. She liked demeaning them. May be, she wanted to be above them in everything! But friends were always there with her. She was with them, just for the sake of a company.

Many people loved her, she ignored. Still a guy loved her truly, from the core of his heart. He was not great looking, but knew love is everything he can bestow on her. And yes, he was successful to steal her heart away. She fell deep in love. She was all he needed. Movies, shopping, night outs, long drives, hugs, kisses... a beautiful life, he ever imagined. She loved the way he loved her. Things were amazing.

18 months passed by.. merrily. Unexpectedly, he saw her with some guy at the movies late in the night. She said the other guy is a friend. He trusted her blindly. Things moved on fine. They were still a happy couple. After a month, he saw the other guy on Facebook, as a friendly gesture, he sent a friend request. The other guy added. He went to his profile, saw the pictures. That guy was engaged, engaged to a girl 10 months back. To all his surprise, he was engaged to someone who looked just like 'her', the love of his life.

He met her in the evening, they went out for dinner. After spending a lovely time, he said, "I met a friend of yours on Facebook."
She: "Who?" She asked with wide eyes.
He: "With whom you were out at the movies that day.. "
She: "Oh! Then??"
He: "Then nothing.. you know what, he is engaged?"
She: ... .. .. <speechless, horrified, worried>
He: I was amazed to see... that girl, with whom he is engaged..  she looked just like you. And I am really sad, you did not tell me you have a twin sister? :(
She: .. .. .. <teary eyes, shivering hands>
He: Its okay if you did not tell me, wish her good luck from my side.
She, spoke with teary eyes: I got engaged, almost a year back.
He: Stop kidding!!
She: I am sorry, I lied all this time.
He: .. .. .. <quiet>
She: .. .. .. <crying>
He: Stop crying, we still are friends. I wish the best for you.
He dropped her home. His trust was broken. He still was there for her.

Time has moved on, she is getting married. He is still a good friend.

Why do boys have such big heart?? Why he couldn't hate her?? Why he trusted her so blindly?? Why she did all this to him??
Unanswered questions.. !!