Saturday, November 26, 2011

Friends.. Family


Hi..

When I say ‘Friends’.. I recall very few names in my heart.. my closest buddies.. Those people who know you to the core and still love you, and they are always there. One of my friends, a new friend actually, wanted me to write on this. But then, there is endless to write on friends. And still I am so unable to find the apt words. For people like me, who are staying so away from home, these friends become family. So, this post is really really so close to my heart.

That Airtel song.. ‘Kyunki Har ek friend zaroori hota hai’, it is so true. Each friend is an important part of life. There are many kinds of friends. Many are there only when they need you, and few are there at all the times. I am so proud to say all my friends are of the second category. On the top of them is my best buddy.. he is just there at all the times. A true friend!! And I confess, I do not reciprocate. L I do not know, at times I am so weird.. I just cannot help. I am sorry. Yes, this word may not help. But then, I am so so sorry. I wish I am there at all the times.

You might have hundreds of people in your friend list on Facebook, but you are available on chat to only few. If I start deleting people whom I do not interact with, I am sure my friend list will become really shorter. There are various ways through which people become friends.. school, college, work, friends of friends, social networking sites.. even this blog gave me a friend. J I so want to share the way people ask for being friends on Facebook. It really is hilarious at times. All the girls atleast might have experienced it and most of the guys have done it! ;) 

But I still do not know what friendship is. Knowing someone so true and loving for the same? Is it? May be.. but such friends are hard to find. A friend knows you from where you have come, what you have become and where you want to reach. I feel a single friend can become a world to me, but then truth should be there. It is such a precious relationship one can ever have. Our family is pre-decided by God. But our friends.. we chose them, we decide who should be there in our thick and thin. Just try and make this choice so diligently. I hope I do the same. To actually have a friend, you have to be a friend. Yes, reciprocation is important too! For my buddies, I am glad I have all of you here. Trust me, I am there and I love you all from the core of my heart. I don’t feel I need to name my friends here. Those who actually are will surely smile after reading this post.And believe me, you are an important part of my life. Just be there.

Take care! Keep Smiling J Ciao. 

2 comments:

Subhash Chandra said...

!!each and every words and sentences are so emotional... Superbly written Nancy!!

Nancy Arora said...

Thanks a ton Subhash! :)