Hello Readers.. :)
I was just thinking.. how important it is for me to speak.. to express what I wish to. I would surely die without it. This Communication thing is really imperative! Atleast for me, it is close to breathing. It feels so good to be heard, to be understood. It is surely an unsaid need. At times, it is greed to do all the talking but not wanting to listen at all. And what happens when you are misunderstood, even after communicating?? Disaster!!
Trust me; this is happening in this ‘Big Boss Season 5’ atleast! ;) I don’t follow it die hard.. but yes.. saw a few episodes just to see thodhi mirchi.. ;) and I was like OMG!! It is said something, and these gals!! Uff, they understand something, which is totally different!!
The most important thing in communications is to hear, what is not being said through words. Gestures are so important too.. the tone, the eyes and the actions.. At times, your eyes say something else and your words are on the other direction. These situations are like “have-tos”. When you have decided not to express the reality.. you just.. have to hide the reality with words. Yes, it is said, Eyes never lie.. But, everyone and anyone can’t read them also.
I believe, don’t delay in saying what you feel.. tomorrow never comes. Say it now, with no regrets! :) Have you ever felt your life might have been entirely different had you said something when it was needed or done something at that time? Yes, all of us might have felt. And we regret when we feel so. When I am dying, I do not want to feel that I have turned into a wrong person coz I did not do what I wanted to for the whole of my life. My each action today would make me, would nurture me. And that is why, I said what I wanted to.. :)
But now, have I become expressionless? Did I ever wanted to do this? I do not know!!!.. No.. I don't speak, my eyes speak, which can't be read easily! I am short of words to say what I wish to, my gestures are speaking a lot. I hope in this speechless communication, I am understood the right way.
Ciao.. :) Take Care! Keep Smiling :)
The most important thing in communications is to hear, what is not being said through words. Gestures are so important too.. the tone, the eyes and the actions.. At times, your eyes say something else and your words are on the other direction. These situations are like “have-tos”. When you have decided not to express the reality.. you just.. have to hide the reality with words. Yes, it is said, Eyes never lie.. But, everyone and anyone can’t read them also.
I believe, don’t delay in saying what you feel.. tomorrow never comes. Say it now, with no regrets! :) Have you ever felt your life might have been entirely different had you said something when it was needed or done something at that time? Yes, all of us might have felt. And we regret when we feel so. When I am dying, I do not want to feel that I have turned into a wrong person coz I did not do what I wanted to for the whole of my life. My each action today would make me, would nurture me. And that is why, I said what I wanted to.. :)
But now, have I become expressionless? Did I ever wanted to do this? I do not know!!!.. No.. I don't speak, my eyes speak, which can't be read easily! I am short of words to say what I wish to, my gestures are speaking a lot. I hope in this speechless communication, I am understood the right way.
Ciao.. :) Take Care! Keep Smiling :)
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