I will be there when YOU need me!

I will be there when you need me! 

Each one of us must have said it once, twice or may be more than that to our loved ones, to our friends, to our families.. ! I have rarely seen these sugary words converted into real. Someone was there, was actually there when I needed, or even when I did not need in my life.. 

When "YOU" needed "I", the "I" was missing.. I don't know where, how, when, "I" lost. Sometimes, there comes a time when you are just emotionally so unwell, and you badly need to see somebody. That somebody could be your family, your best friend, your love.. it simply varies.  You feel lost when that somebody is not available, not right there with you. And all of a sudden, somebody comes.. somewhere from the light! And you feel relieved. You feel relaxed. Even if you remain quiet in front of that person, you feel you have spoken a lot, you have shared yourself. 

I have lots of thoughts on this.. May be it is pretty difficult to write on that. May be,  I am just missing 'that someone'. May be, I am just writing in spur of emotions. I am not too sure... 

I just wish and pray we realize the value of people before losing them. I wish we cherish their presence when we have them. I hope none of us is ever taken for granted. I wish all my readers are showered with loads and loads of  affection!

May God bless you!

Hopes, Friends, Family, Love, Life!

Hello Readers!

Hope you are doing fine! Was thinking something over the word called 'Life'. Life isn't something you can Google! You have to live through it and learn the process! Yeah.. I know you guys have read it somewhere.. I shared it over FB yesterday.. ;)

Life is difficult for those who see it that ways. Otherwise it is just so simple, keep living each moment the way it comes to you. Simple! Isn't it?

Hopes make life. We are living on hopes. We save, we plan for our future, we hope we will live tomorrow. I decide my to-do list for tomorrow, hoping to see the morning. We neglect our present, do our best to prepare well for tomorrow and feel tomorrow will come, just hopes!

Friends make life. We share, we care, we laugh, we fight, we cry, we hate but then still, we are friends. Definition of this word is changing day-by-day though. When we see a group of friends who are girls, we say.. how 'girly' they are! When we see a girl and a boy - friends, we say.. they must be in a relationship! Why can't be girls 'girly'? Aren't they supposed to be that ways? And Why can't a girl and a boy be just friends? Why do we need to name them as something?
Unfortunately, good friends are hard to find. If you are lucky enough to find some, you lose them, coz of blah blah reasons. Reasons varying from silly fights to nasty arguments. When I was a kid, I thought my number of friends would increase with time, as i will meet new people daily. It was sheer opposite. I had loads of friends when I was as young as 5 may be, and now I can count my friends on fingers. Perhaps, now I know what the word 'friend' means. As I grew up, I realized every other human being who speaks nice to u, isn't a friend. But still, they make your life, a major chunk of your happiness and sorrows!

Family, the one and only life line. A group of your loved ones, parents - who take all the pains to bring you up. Siblings - who take all the trouble to just be on your side, when everyone is just against you! The Extended Family - 'the society makers' - they contribute in one way or the other - visible/invisible, tangible/intangible. Blessed are the ones who have a wonderful family. Yes, family makes life! It is the life -line. :)

Love! Love is just love. Thousands of people couldn't explain this feeling. How a normal girl of early twenties can express this? All I know is, love is beautiful. Presence of love in your life changes it. This makes you feel that you are complete. The 'auto-correct' option. I want, my love to correct all my wrong doings. This is how he will complete me. We have stories of people dying for love, but I want to live for my love! Sharing joys, sharing sorrows and growing old! Thats it! This is life!

So, Life.. Hopes, Friends, Family, Love! I did not talk about emotions, I spoke about the group that create emotions. Whatever we are doing in our life, is somehow, somewhere connected to this group! I did not touch the materialistic aspect of life, coz I do not see life from that perspective. I know it is imperative for many people reading this. But then, this is complete for me. My life revolves around them only. Basic necessities of my life!

:) :) Take care! Ciao! God bless!