Destiny!!

Hello Readers!

Hope all is fine with you guys! To all of those who are fighting for their lives in Uttarakhand, we all are proud of you for your undying spirit! You all rock!! :) Surely, you will be back home soon. Many thanks to all those working hard to get them back home. Respect!

I was always a true believer in destiny and still I am. But their is a little difference in my opinion these days. I used to think what is meant to happen will happen, irrespective of my efforts. At times, when I could not get what I wanted, I used to feel satiated by thinking that its alright, it wasn't in my destiny! I feel this thinking can make a person very passive, that goal-centric attitude may end. My thoughts have refined to become different, more with If-I-want-it-I-have-to-fight-for-it attitude. You are the creator of your own destiny!! Things will happen as per your twists and turns with life. We say "Leave everything on Lord, He will help us." Right! Agreed! Leave everything on Him, He will help us.. but then after making due efforts. Stand up! Be Bold! Be strong! Take the whole responsibility on your own shoulders. And then let the success follow you.

William Shakespeare said.. "It is not in stars to hold our destiny, but in ourselves."

I don't know how this destiny thing works, but if I really try to see things practically.. I feel everything happening with me is coz I have done something for it. I am not being over-confident here. I am just trying to say.. things work out only when you make some efforts to work them out! At times, we make loads of efforts but still we do not get that thing. And we close that topic by saying, it was not destined for us. Excuse me! The moment of truth is - We had not done enough efforts for that thing. I might feel I have worked hard and stuff.. but still.. I didn't get it, coz getting it required more effort - more smart work - more hard work!! As simple as that.

We all might have heard, "karam kar, phal ki iccha na kar". These days the "phal" is highly important. We want our "karam" to give us the the right result. Efforts need to be planned in right direction. :)
All the best to everyone reading this! May you all achieve what you deserve. God bless you. Take care. Ciao... :)

Every Action has an Equal and Opposite Reaction!

Hello Readers!

Hope you all are fine and are enjoying this lazy "Sun" day!!

"Every Action has and Equal and Opposite Reaction". True and Apt! You may call it as Newton's third law of motion or the law of Karma. It seems valid for both. Scientifically as quoted by Sir Isaac Newton. So, If you guys know me, I am really not going to talk about science here. Science and me.. you know.. can't go along really well. I will definitely pull this towards my favorite topic of relations, emotions and behavior.

To link it up with Law of Karma, you may think about the quote "as you sow, so shall you reap". We have heard many stories related to this since our childhood. But today I wanted to link this action-reaction thing with something different.

I read a short story somewhere, would love to share it here. There were few elite ladies having dinner in one of finest of the restaurants in France. They were enjoying their dinner with the costliest of Champagne. As we all know, where there are ladies, the gossips and the talks are endless. So, all of them were engrossed in their conversations and praising each others costly dresses and necklace and all other 'n' number of things related to that. All of a sudden, a flying cockroach somehow arrives and it sits on one of the ladies hair, all of them on the table started shouting and this created chaos in that serene environment of the restaurant. Rather than trying to remove that cockroach from her hair, everyone was just shouting about it. After sometime, the waiter arrived, he just silently picked that cockroach, and threw it outside the restaurant. He was very calm and composed and did what was required to solve the problem. So, everything in few minutes went back to normal. People continued enjoying their dinner and went back in their talks.

So, this incident or story if you may call it, made me just ponder over the "reaction" of both - the ladies and the waiter. The situation or the problem i.e. the cockroach was same. The difference was in the reaction which was taken by the other person. And reactions of both were almost opposite. Whereas the reaction of the ladies created chaos, the reaction of the waiter pacified the situation and the people. Hence its pretty simple, its our reaction to the things that make the difference. That is why, even after facing similar problems, some people rise against all odds and some still remain in the vicious circle of problems.

Let us just think a little before reacting to the situations around us. Might help us in solving most of the concerns which we have in life! God bless you !! Take Care! Ciao!

P.S. I am scared of cockroaches too, might have also shouted. It is easy to say things rather than doing it!! :P

Never love anybody who treats you ordinary!

Hello Readers!

Hope everything is going superb in your lives. I just wanted to talk a little more on this quote from Oscar Wilde - "Never love anybody who treats you ordinary!"

If in case you are an avid reader of my blogs, you might have seen me writing a lot on relationships and emotions. I feel emotions are the building blocks in every human being's life. Atleast, they impact me hugely, am sure they might be impacting you as well. I have people in my life who love fully and so whole-heartily Also, I have seen people  who take their loved ones for-granted. There is an innate desire in me, (and in most humans), to be loved, like I am a rare trophy which one can get and deserve, which one can feel proud to have and accept, which no ordinary man can even dare to have a glance at! I would want to be special, like real special for someone! :)

I am blessed to be considered very very special from each and every member of my family. Still, that 'special someone' would be different. For me, he would be the one for whom, I will start feeling homesick from the day I meet him!! Imaginations! Hopes! Life! Sums up everything, every girl's dreams!

Life is taking various turns, some moving ahead and at times the 'U- turns' too. I don't want those U-turns ever. I want to go ahead and move towards my real path. But then, do I know what actually my real path is? Is there a possibility that the U-turn is the right path?? God knows! I heavily rely on Him. I generally wait for a hint from Him. And He graciously shows me the silver lining always. As I always say, whatever happens, happens for good! God is great, He will sure take care of me and everyone! :)

Anyways, you guys take care and have a lovely weekend! May God bless! Ciao!

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